actions speak louder than words

If you were over someone, why would you still talk to them? There's no reason for you to tell someone you're over them. Especially when the relationship has been long over due.

When someone has to verbally tell you that they're over you, there's obviously some unresolved issues there. Isn't the most effective way to show you're over someone is to never talk to them again?

I feel like when a person is trying to tell the other person that they're over them, they're usually trying to convince themselves more than trying to convince the other person.

I never asked about your life, because I don't care about it. You asked about my life clearly because you still want to know about it. Sadly, some people need to hurt others just to convince themselves of what they want to believe.

Actions speak louder than words. Right now, your words are bullshit and your actions are deafening.

build a bridge & get over it

maybe getting over someone isn't impossible. Unless, you don't actually get over it. You just learn to live with it.

How many times a day do you actually think about that one person whom you try to convince yourself you've gotten over?
I know I think about that person at least once, it's just that I never really stopped.

I, as well as many other people, would like to believe they're over a certain someone. But let's be honest with ourselves, we think about that person all the time for a reason.

They mean something to us. They have a special place in our hearts or minds that will always have us thinking "what if".
We learn to accept things as they are eventually. Not because we want to, but because we have to. We have to convince ourselves that we're okay. We convince ourselves everyday that we can handle our situation and everyday life without them.

It's hard to think, "they don't think about us anymore" or "they don't wan us anymore".

I guess it's true what they say, "it's hard to watch the one you love, love someone else."

Bad karma or sweet revenge?

The saying is that "karma's a bitch" do don't mess with her. But what if, your actions are considered someone else's bad karma, is it still going to come around and bite you in the ass?

Let's say I had a friend and she back stabbed me along the way. I believe in karma and believe that it'll get her back, but it was me who got back at her. Is it considered revenge? Or is considered as bad karma getting back at her and eventually about to get me too?

Is karma gonna get back at me just because I took someone else's karma into my own hands? I still see it as sweet revenge. Despite the fact it might bite me in the ass in the end, I'm enjoying this invigorating feeling of sweet revenge. I honestly believe that there's nothing sweeter than knowing you were able to get back at the person who made you feel pain. It's even sweeter when it's the pain you felt and so much more.

I'm not saying I like to see someone else's pain, but rather I just like to know that they didn't get away with what they did.

friendships vs acquaintances

People usually define the depth of their friendships by quantity, how long they've known a person.
Others, on the other hand, define their friendships by quality. I have friends I've known my entire life and friends I've known for a couple of months. Both of whom I would trust my life with, despite the timeframe difference.

But the thing is, how do you determine what ends a friendship?
What if you end a friendship with someone you've known your whole life? Or a friendship you've had for a couple of months? Were you actually friends to begin with? Or just merely acquaintances.

In my opinion, a friendship is determined day by day. You can be friends one day, acquaintances another day, and then enemies a couple days after that. In all honesty, a person shouldn't define what they have with a person with a title, such as "friend" or "best friend" or "acquaintance".

Because, unfortunately, there's a slight chance that an acquaintance can do more for you than a best friend ever did for you.
I don't regret losing a friend, because I have myself who will never let me down.
But I'm always grateful in gaining one because you can never have too many of those.