The saying is that "karma's a bitch" do don't mess with her. But what if, your actions are considered someone else's bad karma, is it still going to come around and bite you in the ass?
Let's say I had a friend and she back stabbed me along the way. I believe in karma and believe that it'll get her back, but it was me who got back at her. Is it considered revenge? Or is considered as bad karma getting back at her and eventually about to get me too?
Is karma gonna get back at me just because I took someone else's karma into my own hands? I still see it as sweet revenge. Despite the fact it might bite me in the ass in the end, I'm enjoying this invigorating feeling of sweet revenge. I honestly believe that there's nothing sweeter than knowing you were able to get back at the person who made you feel pain. It's even sweeter when it's the pain you felt and so much more.
I'm not saying I like to see someone else's pain, but rather I just like to know that they didn't get away with what they did.
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Saturday, September 15, 2012
friendships vs acquaintances
People usually define the depth of their friendships by quantity, how long they've known a person.
Others, on the other hand, define their friendships by quality. I have friends I've known my entire life and friends I've known for a couple of months. Both of whom I would trust my life with, despite the timeframe difference.
But the thing is, how do you determine what ends a friendship?
What if you end a friendship with someone you've known your whole life? Or a friendship you've had for a couple of months? Were you actually friends to begin with? Or just merely acquaintances.
In my opinion, a friendship is determined day by day. You can be friends one day, acquaintances another day, and then enemies a couple days after that. In all honesty, a person shouldn't define what they have with a person with a title, such as "friend" or "best friend" or "acquaintance".
Because, unfortunately, there's a slight chance that an acquaintance can do more for you than a best friend ever did for you.
I don't regret losing a friend, because I have myself who will never let me down.
But I'm always grateful in gaining one because you can never have too many of those.
Others, on the other hand, define their friendships by quality. I have friends I've known my entire life and friends I've known for a couple of months. Both of whom I would trust my life with, despite the timeframe difference.
But the thing is, how do you determine what ends a friendship?
What if you end a friendship with someone you've known your whole life? Or a friendship you've had for a couple of months? Were you actually friends to begin with? Or just merely acquaintances.
In my opinion, a friendship is determined day by day. You can be friends one day, acquaintances another day, and then enemies a couple days after that. In all honesty, a person shouldn't define what they have with a person with a title, such as "friend" or "best friend" or "acquaintance".
Because, unfortunately, there's a slight chance that an acquaintance can do more for you than a best friend ever did for you.
I don't regret losing a friend, because I have myself who will never let me down.
But I'm always grateful in gaining one because you can never have too many of those.
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