Ready or not?

There comes a time in every person's life when they finally meet the person of their dreams. The person they believe they will spend forever with, or at least the rest of their life. However, how long is forever really?

I have come across this very interesting theory that a man doesn't really fall in love but in fact just comes to the point in their life when they feel they are ready to settle down. Is it even possible for a man to feel this chemical reaction within themselves the way a newly mother feels love for a baby they just met? There are so many love stories and romance movies that lead us to believe that if we were meant for someone, they would both feel some type of way. But what if, this belief or feeling is well adjusted to be one sided? What if, this feeling is only valid to women?

In my opinion, I honestly believe that a man doesn't "find the right one" but instead just comes to some realization. The realization that when all the games and chasing is done and over with, they are ready to settle down. Once they have that lovely epiphany, it's whichever woman happens to be walking pass them, is the "right one".

As skeptical as this sounds, I for one, have experienced this. The relationship began to die down when I realized that he was more than ready to settle down, and I was not. Unfortunately for me, I have the mind set of a man. Fortunately for everyone else, I know how the men feel.